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June 06, 2009

Kingdom of God #1

J0436420 The Scriptures remind us of our other worldliness.  Once we become followers of Christ our citizenship changes--we become citizens of heaven (Phil 3:20,21).  Scripture refers to us as aliens and strangers in the world (1 Pet 2:11,12).  We are admonished to not conform any longer to the pattern of this world (Rom 12:2).  In fact, we are not to love the world or anything in the world (1 John 2:15-17) because friendship with the world is hatred toward God (James 4:6).  The marks of new citizenship include a new lifestyle (Tit 2:11-14) and a new set of values referred to as the fruit of the Spirit and that reflect the heart of God (Gal 5:22-24).

So, what is meant by "the world?"  To what world does the Scriptures cited refer?  Surely, the physical world is a creation of God burdened by the weight of sin and awaiting a facelift.  If not the physical world then what? 

The moral world -- the following was excerpted from The Evangelical Dictionary of Bblical Theology...

The moral world includes people indifferent or hostile to God, the God-hostile environment generally, and in the widest sense, corruption and evil summed up under the general term "the world." If the people of the world can be spoken of as "the world" in a neutral sense, "the world" can also refer to the subclass of indifferent and hostile people who reject God and his ways. Before the flood nearly all the people of the world became corrupt (Gen 6:11). In Jesus' time the world hated him () and will hate his followers (John 15:18-19). The world, ungodly people, cannot receive the things of God (John 14:17,22; 16:8-9; cf. 1 John 3:1) and is not even worthy of the people of faith who live among them (Heb 11:38).

In the New Testament the world also appears as a hostile environment. Because of the hatred of the world's people, the Son asks the Father to protect his followers rather than remove them from their alien surroundings (John 17:14-16). Paul expresses his indifference to the world by saying he "is crucified" as far as the world is concerned (Gal 6:14). Seven times in 1 Cor 1-3 Paul refers to the world's ignorance of God and its powerlessness to find him without the cross of Christ.

Because of the world's hostility to God, it is full of corruption (2 Peter 1:4) and stands as a symbol of corruption. One cannot be friendly with the evil world and love God at the same time (James 4:4; 1 John 2:15-17). Believers by their faith must "overcome the world" (1 John 5:4-5), killing whatever belongs to their "earthly nature" (Col 3:5) and denying "worldly passions" (Titus 2:12).

The question we must ask ourselves is to whom do we owe our allegiance?  Where does our citizenship reside?  Do we have dual citizenship? 

As I look at the world I see evil increasing at an alarming rate...more about this later.

 

May 25, 2009

Memorial Day - just another reason for a BBQ?

Flag Yesterday, while in church, I became agitated and frustrated (the Christian word for angry).  Church is not usually the place where such feelings are felt.  Having given 29 years of my life to the military, having been in war, having been proud of my service to the greatest country in the world (not a popular sentiment today) I felt a bit on the edge when a young person unemotionally asked the veterans in the sanctuary to stand as she suggested that the audience applaud us.

Normally I would be pleased at such a gesture.  I was not because it rang superficial and hollow--something that had to be done rather than something that should be done.  The message that followed trivialized the moment.  The speaker spoke on despair using a failed relationship as a backdrop to suggest ways to deal with despair.  I kept thinking during the message how superficial and niave we have become.  Instead of honoring those who gave their lives so we have the freedom to express our faith without fear of life or limb we trivialize the day by speaking on a self-obsorbed subject having nothing whatsoever to do with the great sacrifices made by so many recently and in the distant past.

We can argue over whether or not a war is justified or the cause above reproach.  We can examine details of every war and find something we diagree on.  Some of us disagree with war for any reason.  Others see war as necessary for many reasons.  There is nothing attractive about war.  Anyone having been in battle comes away with a sober understanding of this socalled last resort.  Not every war has been fought for justifiable reasons.  Yet, some wars were necessary to defend the oppressed and to protect what we hold dear - freedom.

Augustine postulated four reasons when war is justified.

1. Called by a legitimate authority for the purpose of securing peace.

2. Safety of citizens through defensive measures.

3. With force exerted that will not produce a greater harm.

4. For protection of innocent lives, with a reasonable probability of success.

War must be the last resort; openly declared by proper authority; in response to unjust aggression; and that success must be probable. During warfare, it insists, the desired good ends must outweigh the destructive means and noncombatants must be protected as much as possible.

In the Readers Write section of the Star Tribune today one commentator (Jeffrey S.) summed up my feelings.

"Memorial Day should not be just another day off or the unofficial start of summer, but a day of solemn reflection and patriotic pride.  This day we remember the voice of those who are now voiceless.  We weep for those who no longer feel sadness, and we laugh for those who no longer feel joy.  We remind our children of what grandpa did on the beaches of Normandy or what mom did in the hills of Afghanistan.  We remind them of what dad did in the jungles of Vietnam or we have them stand in silence at the grave of the unknown soldier.  We teach our children that what they and countless others died for means something -- that freedom is not free."

As we sit under the shadow of a blood soaked flag and enjoy the freedom that has come at such a dear cost let us remember those who gave the ultimate sacrifice.  Jeffrey S. concludes his remarks by saying...

"Let us not forget their sacrifices and selflessness--they paid the ultimate price in defense of an ideal:  That all (persons) are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Happiness."

 

April 29, 2009

How am I doing?

Two weeks ago today my mother passed away.  I have been asked by many how I'm doing.  I fully expect there will be unplanned waves of grief as time passes.  I am pleased to report however that I have no regrets or remorse.  My wife taught me long ago how to express my love to my family.  I did that many times to my mother so nothing was left unsaid.  I know she is in a better place nodoubt with her mother and father and other loved ones who have gone before her.  I believe she is with the Lord.  That assurance alone brings me peace.

They say you can get past such a loss but not over it.  I think that is true.  I have more concern for those left behind--in particular my stepfather.  He doted on my mother.  She was his life.  He is a survivor for sure but I still worry for him.  Please keep Verne in your prayers.  Let me take this opportunity to thank all of you who sent cards or who prayed for me and my family.  During the time I was there I felt as though my arms were being lifted by untold many much like Moses during the battle recorded in the Old Testament.

I find great solace in the words that follow from Scripture...

1 Cor 15:50-57  I declare to you, brothers, that flesh and blood cannot inherit the kingdom of God, nor does the perishable inherit the imperishable. 51 Listen, I tell you a mystery: We will not all sleep, but we will all be changed— 52 in a flash, in the twinkling of an eye, at the last trumpet. For the trumpet will sound, the dead will be raised imperishable, and we will be changed. 53 For the perishable must clothe itself with the imperishable, and the mortal with immortality. 54 When the perishable has been clothed with the imperishable, and the mortal with immortality, then the saying that is written will come true: "Death has been swallowed up in victory."g 5 "Where, O death, is your victory?  Where, O death, is your sting?"  56 The sting of death is sin, and the power of sin is the law. 57 But thanks be to God! He gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ. NIV

April 17, 2009

My Comments at My Mother's Funeral

I thought you might like to know what I said about my mother after I read my daughter's peom...

Six years ago, on my mother’s 82 birthday, I wrote her the following words…

“You have taught me many things and have imparted values that have helped me.  Tenacity and perseverance are two that have helped me to not give up.  Commitment to family is another that gives me the courage to provide a safe environment for (my daughter and our six grandchildren).  There are others--faith in the face of adversity, strength in the face of trials, belief in myself in the face of doubts, unconditional love for family in the face of disappointment, and dogged determination in the face of discouragement.  I learned these values by observing and benefitting from your life.  You have been a model for me Mom.  I am indebted to you.  You will leave a big void in my life when God calls you home.  When I speak of legacy to others I define it as the sweet aroma left in the lives of others long after we have gone.  My life will bear the sweet fragrance of your life and will linger in the lives of countless others because of you.  Thank you for your legacy in my life.”  These words are as true today as they were then.

Many children long for a blessing from their parents.  My brother, sisters, and I will not be among them because her life was a blessing to us every day.  There are five elements to a blessing.  The first is meaningful touch…as I leaned over to kiss her forehead for the last time a flood of memories came to mind—her tender kiss on the cheek, her warm embrace, her gentle pat on the back (and sometimes, when we were young, not so gentle on the backside when we misbehaved).

The second is spoken word.  She always had a word of encouragement for us, she was fiercely protective of us; she was our greatest cheerleader throughout our lives.  She rejoiced in our successes and she grieved over our disappointments.  I loved to hear the sound of her infectious laughter.  I will miss the sound of her reassuring and loving voice.

The third is imparting value in the one being blessed.  She lived for her children, her grandchildren, and her great grandchildren.  She would brag on us to whoever would listen.  She was proud of us.  She always believed in us.  She possessed a rare type of love for us—the Bible calls it unconditional love—it was patient and kind, it was not self-seeking or easily angered, she kept no record of wrongs, her love always protected, always trusted, always hoped, and always persevered, her love never failed.

The fourth is a picture of a preferable future.  Mom always looked to the future, always hoped for the best, always gave the benefit of the doubt, always saw a better future for each of us.  She longed to alleviate or pains and our sorrows, and replace them with the good she saw in us, to fan into flame the spark of beauty and worth she knew was in us.

The fifth is a commitment to help us realize our potential.  Mom always knew our unique potential and spurred us on to reach it.  When the world seemed arrayed against us she would remind us of what we were and the value she saw in us.  She showed us how to rise above our circumstances.  What she personally experienced in her own life would destroy most people I know.  She was a survivor.  Her life was a living testimony of her faith in her Lord and in us.

Yes, she blessed us.  Now she joins a great host of family and friends who have gone before her—no more pain and suffering, no more regrets, no more sorrows.  She leaves behind a great legacy, a sweet aroma, a husband who loved her dearly, sons and daughters who will never forget her, grandchildren and great grandchildren who will carry on her legacy and her good name.

Mom, you lived a life of integrity, honor, and authenticity.  We grieve your loss but celebrate your homegoing.  Heavenly Father, Lord Jesus, Holy Spirit we commend her soul to you.  Thank you for the gift of our mother.  May our lives bring honor to her name.

April 17, 2009

St. Hedwig Church

Bay City, Michigan

My Daughters Poem to Her Granmother

I thought many of you would like to read my daughter's poem to her grandmother.  I read it at the funerla services today.

If I had one more day with you…

Written for my grandmother, Violet

If I had one more day with you…

I would ask you to share your memories …

                        About Grandpa Compeau

                        About his Bijoux, Angelle

                        About his little girl, Violet

I would ask to hear the story about…

The boy who would teach himself to speak technology fluently

                        The girl who would someday risk herself to protect her children

The boy who would become an international speaker

AND

            The girl who would one day lead a school

I would ask you to recount (for the record)…           

                        The number of times daddy escaped from your wrath

The number of times daddy got stitches

The number of times that the school called you

The number of times that he got in trouble

Or if easier

The number of times that he wasn’t in trouble

AND then…

      We’d blackmail him and split the profits.

If I had one more day with you…

            I would let you win every game of poker

            I would ask you to make Ragu and really try hard to like it

I would make nametags a requirement for family events

                        AND

                               I would build you a portable smoking outhouse with central heat & air conditioning

If I had one more day with you…

I would take you on a picnic

                        And we would eat pickles

                        And listen to the seagulls

                        And I would make a feeble attempt at a crossword puzzle

                        And you would help me salvage it

                                    AND

You would promise not to tell

I would rig the slot machines

                        And the lights would blink

                        And the bells would ring

                        And the money would pour

                        And you would dance a jig

                                    AND

 I would act surprised

            I would buy us both elevator shoes

                        And we would be tall

                        And we would take family pictures

                                    (From the waist up of course)

                        AND

We would giggle

If I had one more day with you…

I would tell you …

How thankful I am for the gift of my daddy

How proud I am to be your grand daughter

How honored I am to be told I look like you

How fun it is to act like you

AND

How hopeful I am that I will someday be like you

If I had one more day with you…

            I would take every opportunity…

                        To sit next to you

                        To listen to you

                        To laugh with you

                        To hug you

                                    AND

                                                Tell you how much I love you

I wish I had one more day with you…

But, I don’t really need one more day

                        I don’t really need one more hour

                        I don’t even need one more minute…

BECAUSE...

            I know that you are with Jesus

            I know that He will take good care of you until I get there…

AND When I DO…

            We will have an entire eternity to talk and laugh and dance

So be ready, Grandma

                        OH, and by the way…

Grandma,

Would you please thank Jesus for hand-picking you to be my grandma.

His choice was truly perfect… just like Him.

Love,

Monique

 

April 15, 2009

The Homegoing of My Mother - Violette

They say death is a part of life - somehow that rings pretty shallow right now.  My mother just passed away.  Debby and I were by her bedside as were her husband, my brother, and my two sisters.  She was 88 years old.  We had to make a very hard decision to take her off of life support.  My prayer all along was that if she continued to suffer as she had over the last two weeks that God, in His mercy, would take her home.  He did that.  Now she has joined those who have gone before her--she is with the Lord.

She was a fighter all her life full of joy amidst life tragedies.  She loved her children and lived for them caring about every little detail.  I would call her while on travel around the world.  She was always amazed at where I was and took delight.  Her sense of humor was infectous.  She will be dearly missed.  I find great comfort in the following facts. 

2 Tim 1:9-11 This grace was given us in Christ Jesus before the beginning of time, but it has now been revealed through the appearing of our Savior, Christ Jesus, who has destroyed death and has brought life and immortality to light through the gospel.

Heb 2:14-16  Since the children have flesh and blood, He too shared in their humanity so that by His death he might destroy him who holds the power of death--that is, the devil--and free those who all their lives were held in slavery by their fear of death.

I mourn her passing but rejoice in her homegoing.  I have many wonderful memories of my mother.  I loved her dearly--her wit, her unconditional love, her love and care for us.  She was a great mom.  She was a Proverbs 31 woman.  I hope my legacy will honor hers when it is my time to go home.  She is no longer in pain, no longer bound by the vagaries of this life--she is dancing on streets of gold no doubt with her mother and her father who waited for her. 

Thank you Lord for her life and her love.  Thank you for the values she passed on to me.  Thank you for the courage she modeled to all of us.  Thank you for the joy of her presence and the sweet aroma of her life that will linger for years to come.  Thank you for answering my prayers.

March 28, 2009

Update on Ukraine

We are nearing the end of our trip to the Ukraine.  We spent the day in Kiev.  It is hard for me to believe that I was actually in Kiev.  When I was in the military I read about it, I studied it, I analyzed it.  How the world has changed.

We had a great time.  While in Odessa, we realized how spoiled we are with our opportunities.  I was amazed at what Odessa Seminary has to carry on its mission.  It pales with what we have in the states.  But yet they are carrying out God's mission.

In another place we presented workshops on issues related to the church, leadership, and the family.  Leland and I tagged teamed our way through the presentations.  In my presentation I ran out of time.  The next day I was able to complete my presentation on 12 lessons on leadership from the Bible.  What especially hit home was an unplanned topic.  The men that were gathered were moved by my remarks on 'blessings.'

I see God at work in many unexpected ways.  I am continually humbled by His provisions.  We have it so easy in the States.  We grow fat and complacent.  Yet, in other places less fortunate I see God's powerful hand at work.  We are spoiled in the States.  I'm not sure how we would survive given the austere circumtances I have encountered in the Ukraine.

I am amazed at God's grace and mercy.

March 23, 2009

Tug of War...

Greetings from the Ukraine.  It is 3:30 AM and I can't sleep.  I am here to forge a strategic alliance with Odessa Theological Seminary.  They are suffering from the economic recession in very fundamental and basic ways.  I'll know more tomorrow.

 

It seems the Lord has been reinforcing a truth over and over again to me.  Many men are chained to their past.  Advancement in spiritual maturation is hindered by constant reminders of the failures of the past.  Yet, Scripture assures us that the past is no more.

Phil 3:10-16 I want to know Christ and the power of his resurrection and the fellowship of sharing in his sufferings, becoming like him in his death, and so, somehow, to attain to the resurrection from the dead.  Not that I have already obtained all this, or have already been made perfect, but I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me.  Brothers, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus. All of us who are mature should take such a view of things. And if on some point you think differently, that too God will make clear to you. Only let us live up to what we have already attained.

I believe it is the strategy of the Enemy to take us to our past, to remind us of our weakness, to rehearse our failures.  Why?  Because he is afraid we will remember that we have been set free from our past, that we can do all things in Christ who strengthens us, that we will begin to live abundant lives, that we will become a formidable foe if we ever fully realize who we are now in Christ.

It is the Enemy who reminds of our past.  It is the Father who reminds us of our future.  It is the Enemy who dwells in the past.  It is God who focuses on the future.  The battle is for the present.  It is in the present that war rages for our souls.  This is where God and the Enemy meet over the mind and hearts of humankind.

Jer 29:11-12 For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.

If you are constantly being reminded of your past - that is the Enemy.  If you are encouraged about the future - that is of God.  Settle it forever then, rely on Christ's strength for the present and focus on the future God has in store for you.  Don't allow the Enemy to pull you back to the past, live a godly life in the present and focus on the future God has for you.

for you.  Don't allow the Enemy to pull you back to to the past, live a godly life in the present and focus on the future God has for you.

March 16, 2009

An Update - Heart of a Warrior

Many of you may be wondering if I fell off the face of the earth.  I assure you I haven't.  Much has happended since I last communicated with you.  My job has morphed at Bethel.  I have two new positions.  The titles are a bit long --  Assistant to the President and Director of Strategy for Online Education and Director of the Institute for Reconciliation and Social Innovation.  For the time being I will continue in many of the responsibilities I have had in the past with the seminary but eventually I will move to thes university wide roles described above.  As you can imagine I am much busier than I have been in the past.

The Heart of a Warrior Ministry continues with Advances planned in April and May in Iowa and Indiana, a trip planned to Romania in August where as many as 3 Advances will be conducted, and a trip back to Headington England where I will a scholar-in-residence in C.S. Lewis' home called the Kilns in September.  I hope to finally finish my book on 'heart surgery.'  I am working with a group of 16 men in my home every other week taking them through Phase I and a group of 4 men taking them through Phase II.  Our ministry at Lino Lakes Prison continues to expand where a group of 19 men are currently going through Phase I and another group of 7 men are going through Phase II.

We are continuing to film lead ins for each of the lessons, are looking at updating and expanding the webpage to offer materials and other products, and other related initiatives.  So, if you were wondering we are alive and well.  Please keep us in your prayers.  If you feel led to support the ministry with needed financial support please make your checks payable to Heart of a Warrior Ministries and send them to me (391 Harriet Circle, Shoreview, MN 55126).

I will be more intentional about making more frequent posts in the future.  Strength and Honor!


February 20, 2009

Warrior Down - Now Defending the Throne of God

One of our men, Tom, just reported the homegoing of his son Ian.  This wonderful little boy lost his battle with cancer but now is in the Lord's presence defending the throne of God.  I weep for Tom and Deb's loss but rejoice that Ian is no longer suffering.  Please lift up Tom and Deb in this very difficult time.

I can't help but think of my grandchildren at a time like this.  I cannot imagine the grief borne by parents at the loss of a child.  My heart aches for them.  Men, love your children while they are with you, hug them every chance you get, bless them and encourage them.  They are God's tender blessings to you.

Heavenly Father, your child Ian is now with you skipping along the streets of heaven, embraced by others who came home before him and welcome him to heaven.  May Jesus wrap him in his arms and lift his spirits.  He is a mighty warrior who loves you.  He has touch the lives of so many even though he is so young.  Thank you for the privilege of having known him.  He is one little boy I will seek out when it is my time to come home.  Amen.

Please go to the following URL to hear his remarkable story and to listen to the heart of his Dad and Mom.

Ian - A Champion of God

January 27, 2009

4 R's - Replacement

Now that removal of a barrier has been completed the second step can be applied--replacement.  Removal through confession is just the first step.  If you do not replace the void left with God's truth and then act on it repeatedly it will return with a vengeance.

The following steps are what is meant by replacement.  They include repentance - a true turning away from sin and a turning to God.  It is a recognition that you are under new management and belong to the family of God in all it represents both in responsibilities and benefits.  It requires replacement of the old with the new.  It is a commitment to ongoing renewal in the word, being restored by it through obedience to it by the power of the Holy Spirit.  And finally, it mean recalibration - a tuning of your heart to the heart of God, seeing the world as He sees it, livng in accordance with His guidelines and commands, realigning your character in accordance with the character of Christ.

5.  Repentance (Turning)

Matthew 3:8 Produce fruit in keeping with repentance. Luke 13:3 I tell you, no! But unless you repent, you too will all perish. Acts 2:38 Peter replied, "Repent and be baptized, every one of you, in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins. And you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit. Acts 3:19 Repent, then, and turn to God, so that your sins may be wiped out, that times of refreshing may come from the Lord.  Acts 26:20 First to those in Damascus, then to those in Jerusalem and in all Judea, and to the Gentiles also, I preached that they should repent and turn to God and prove their repentance by their deeds.  2 Peter 3:9 The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. He is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance.

 

6.  Replacement (Substitution)

John 8:31-32To the Jews who had believed him, Jesus said, "If you hold to my teaching, you are really my disciples. Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free."  2 Timothy 3:16-17 All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, so that the man of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work. Ephesians 4:22-24 You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; to be made new in the attitude of your minds; and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness.

 

7.  Renewal/Restoration (Action)

 

James 2:17 In the same way, faith by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead.  James 2:20-22 You foolish man, do you want evidence that faith without deeds is useless? Was not our ancestor Abraham considered righteous for what he did when he offered his son Isaac on the altar? You see that his faith and his actions were working together, and his faith was made complete by what he did. James 2:26 As the body without the spirit is dead, so faith without deeds is dead. Romans 12:1-3 Therefore, I urge you, brothers, in view of God's mercy, to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God-this is your spiritual act of worship. Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is-his good, pleasing and perfect will. For by the grace given me I say to every one of you: Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgment, in accordance with the measure of faith God has given you.

 

8.  Recalibration (Alignment)

 

Titus 2:11-14 For the grace of God that brings salvation has appeared to all men. It teaches us to say "No" to ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright and godly lives in this present age, while we wait for the blessed hope-the glorious appearing of our great God and Savior, Jesus Christ, who gave himself for us to redeem us from all wickedness and to purify for himself a people that are his very own, eager to do what is good.

 

 


January 19, 2009

The 4 R's - Removal

Removing the corruption within us is not easy but it is simple.  First we have to realize their is a problem.  We have to be aware.  Much of what plagues us is deep down within us producing behaviors we know does not bring honor to the Lord.  The Holy Spirit will help us uncover the underlying cause or source of such behavior if we simply--and in prayer--ask for His assistance to uncover the source.  Through prayer and reflection it will become apparent.  Recognizing it openly and humbly will go a long way in removing its power and influence in our lives.  When we recognize that it is our corrupted beliefs that give rise to corrupted behavior we cease to apply bandaids on behavior and deal with the underlying source of our problem. 

 

The actual process of removal, then, can be applied through confession-agreeing with God that we have sinned, that such sin and its forgiveness was won at the Cross, that the sin was nailed there with Jes, that what He did there paid the price, and that its power is broken because of the finsihed work of Christ.  Confession is simply acknowledging or agreeing with God that it is indeed sin, thanking God for paying the price of our rebellion, and asking for His help in not repeating it and allowing it to control us.

 

1.  Realization (Awareness)

John 16:8-11, 13-15  When he comes, he will convict the world of guilt in regard to sin and righteousness and judgment: in regard to sin, because men do not believe in me; in regard to righteousness, because I am going to the Father, where you can see me no longer; and in regard to judgment, because the prince of this world now stands condemned…But when he, the Spirit of truth, comes, he will guide you into all truth. He will not speak on his own; he will speak only what he hears, and he will tell you what is yet to come. He will bring glory to me by taking from what is mine and making it known to you. All that belongs to the Father is mine. That is why I said the Spirit will take from what is mine and make it known to you.

 

2.  Reflection (Prayer)

John 14:16-17And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another Counselor to be with you forever- the Spirit of truth. The world cannot accept him, because it neither sees him nor knows him. But you know him, for he lives with you and will be in you…John 14:26 But the Counselor, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will teach you all things and will remind you of everything I have said to you.  Hebrews 4:12 For the word of God is living and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart.

3.  Recognition (Understanding)

Proverbs 4:23  Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life. 2 Corinthians 13:5 Examine yourselves to see whether you are in the faith; test yourselves. Do you not realize that Christ Jesus is in you-unless, of course, you fail the test?  Philippians 1:9-11 And this is my prayer: that your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight, so that you may be able to discern what is best and may be pure and blameless until the day of Christ, filled with the fruit of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ-to the glory and praise of God.

4.  Removal (Confession)

1 John 1:8-9If we claim to be without sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.  Romans 10:9-10That if you confess with your mouth, "Jesus is Lord," and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you confess and are saved.

January 13, 2009

The 4 R's...Reflection

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This is the season for reflection, removal, replacement, resolution, and renewal.

Conducting a personal audit of our lives is a good thing.  Reflecting on the past can prevent failure in the future. 

2 Cor 13:5-6 Examine yourselves to see whether you are in the faith; test yourselves. Do you not realize that Christ Jesus is in you — unless, of course, you fail the test?  Lam 3:40 Let us examine our ways and test them, and let us return to the Lord .

 In prayer (it will help us uncover our blind spots) and quiet reflection how would you answer the following questions...

  • What am I doing now that I need to keep doing? 

  • What am I doing now I need to change? 

  • What am I doing now I need to stop doing?

  • What am I not doing now I need to start doing?

Although these questions are framed in the singular personal tense they can also be aplied to a marriage, family, group or corporate context.

  • What are we doing now we need to keep doing? 

  • What are we doing now we need to change? 

  • What are we doing now we need to stop doing? 

  • What are we not doing now we need to start doing?

These reflective questions can be applied to our personal lives, our spiritual lives, or our professional lives.  I encourage you to use these questions as a means of examination.  Record your findings in a journal.  The posts to follow will address of the remaining 3 R's.


January 04, 2009

Warrior Down...

Bill Kinney 

Rally men!  Warrior down.  A close friend and contributor to this blog, Bill Kinney, has been diagnosed with acute luekemia and will undergoe a rigorous regimen of chemotherapy in the very near future.  I have known Bill for a number of years.  He has led several Heart of a Warrior groups in the past.

Bill is a dedicated husband and father, a man of integrity and honor, a soldier of the cross--courageous, dogged, tenacious, tender, caring, and a fully devoted follower of Christ.  It is an honor to know him and count him as a friend.  Bill is a man after God's heart.

He needs us men.  Would you band together with me and pray for him and his family?  The Great Physician can heal him.  Bill is in His hands.  Petition our Lord on his behalf.

Heavenly Father, my friend, my brother, my fellow warrior is down.  Lift him Lord I pray.  Restore him to fight another day.  Wrap your arms around him.  Bring peace to his soul.  Warm him with your unconditional love.  Give hope to his family.  If, in Your sovereign wisdom, your desire is to bring him home--then may he be carried into your presence on his shield having given his all on the battlefield we call life.  Our desire would be, however, that he live to once again take up his sword and shield in defense of the faith, in defense of the undefended, in defense of all we hold right and true.  Amen!

January 02, 2009

A New Year...

It is a new year!  New opportunities, new options, new life!  It is also a time when many people make resolutions.  What is your resolution for the new year?  What will you do differently this year?  What areas of your life will you attend to this new Year?  In what sphere of your life will you choose to make a difference -- spiritual, emotional, intellectual, physical, professional?

This is a time when it is good to take stock, an inventory, an audit.  What is there about your life you would like to change?  What areas need attention? 

This last year was difficult for many of us.  The economy has impacted all of us.  Buy outs, bail outs, give outs-- we are all going to pay for the freight.  If we place our trust and confidence on earthy leaders I am afraid we will be very disappointed. 

It is good to remember that our citizenship is in heaven.  We serve a different master.  We live in accordance with different values.  We engage the world with an eternal perspective.  Who do uyou serve--the crowd or the cross?

 

December 24, 2008

Merry Christmas

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To all who read this blog may I extend a Merry Christmas to you.  God gave us the greatest gift, His Son, to redeem us and embrace us into His family.  His gift cost a great price -- all we have to do is receive it.  We can never repay Him for such a gift.  But every year we can publically acknowledge it by saying, Merry Christmas, rather than the more politically correct phrase, Happy Holidays.

And what a gift it is -- it brings a new birth, a new life, a new attitude, a new song, a new covenant, a new command, a new creation, a new man, a new self, a new citizenship, and a new name.  What do we give Him in return--we can't repay Him but we can express our gratitude by giving something back, something to someone else, or something else.

Will this be the year that you truly give Him yourself?

Will this be the year that you declare that He is Lord of your life?

Will this be the year that you start living out His values in your life?

Will this be the year that you begin living a legacy worth leaving in the lives of others/

Will this be the year that you assume the spiritual leadership in your home?

Will this be the year that you give something back to others less fortunate?

Will this be the year that you out serve your wife?

Will this be the year that you begin living your life under the authority of God's word?

Will this be the year that you remove the stronghold of the Enemy in your life?

Will this be the year that you become a strategic father to your children?

What gift will you give the Lord this year???

I cannot finish this post without acknowledging the gift to Heart of a Warrior Ministries received from a dear friend and fellow warrior.  His son has inoperable brain cancer.  You can only imagine the deep feelings these parents have for their precious son.  In the midst of their pain they send a gift to Heart of a Warrior.  I am deeply grateful and humbled at the same time.  Thank you Tom!  I continue to pray for Ian and your family.

December 15, 2008

Where are the scars...?

The Battle of Thermopylae

  • Took place over a 3-day period in 480 B.C. at a narrow isthmus called the “Hot Gates” and became known as the Battle of Thermopylae.
  • An alliance of Greek city-states led by 300 Spartans and ~ 6700 men under King Leonidas fought an invading Persian army of ~ 800,000 to 2,000,000 men from many countries led by King Xerxes I.
  • The Spartans and the enemy allies held the enemy off until they were betrayed by a traitor.  They had hoped to fight until the larger army could join them after a festival and games.
  • The Spartans were highly trained beginning at the age of 7 and were the most fierce and feared fighters of all the Greek city-states.
  • On the first day of the battle a wave of 10,000 Medes were thrust in a frontal attack of the small Greek army led out front by the Spartans followed by 10,000 of the Immortals both repelled losing thousands of men.
  • The second day of assaults also failed.  Later that day a traitor led a large army of Persians around the pass to encircle the Greeks.
  • On the third day many Greeks either fled or were released except the Spartans and 700 other Greeks.  In the assault that followed the Spartans engaged the Persians.  In that battle Leonidus was killed, the remaining Greeks were surrounded and killed to the last man by arrows raining down on them.
  • Leonidas’ body was taken by Xerxes and in a fit of rage it was decapitated and crucified.  Because of the courage and valor demonstrated by the Spartans that day the Greek armies later rallied and finally defeated the Persians in the Battle of Plataea.

Facing overwhelming forces the Spartans gave their lives, not for themselves but for others.  When I saw the movie, a fairly accurate picture of what truly happened when you read the actual history of the event, I was struck by the fact that every Spartan warrior depicted bore considerable scars on their bodies—evidence of previous battles.

Key Questions

When you come face to face with the King of Kings and Lord of Lords, Jesus Christ—and you will—will your life bear the scars of many conflicts with the Enemy, old wounds representing the skirmishes and battles you fought in His honor?

Will you have left every bit of yourself on the field of engagement and acquitted yourself with honor for His sake and the sake of your loved ones? 

Will you have given it all for Kingdom purposes or will you have squandered your opportunity to live an honorable life of integrity and commitment to His cause?

What will others say of you when you leave this world? 

Will they say there goes a man after God’s heart, a man of honor who gave himself for the sake of others, who represented his King with distinction and service?

What will be your legacy when the day comes for you to depart this earth--when your eyes close and you take your last breath? 

What aroma will you leave in the lives of others after you are gone?  Will it be a stench or a lingering pleasing fragrance of a life well-lived; a life that finished the race well; a life that was others oriented; a life where your children and your wife or those who knew you well call you blessed? 

Will you be able to say what Paul, the Apostle, said near the end of his life?

For I am already being poured out like a drink offering, and the time has come for my departure.  I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. Now there is in store for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will award to me on that day — and not only to me, but also to all who have longed for his appearing (2 Timothy 4:6-8).

Have I cherished my wife and lived an exemplary life for my children? 

Have I strategically passed on to my loved ones the lessons I have learned from life and most importantly from the Lord? 

Have I given them the greatest gift of all—a life well-lived, a focused life, a godly life? 

Have I blessed them by being a guide by the side rather than a sage on a stage?   

Nobody cares what you have to say until they observe how you live.  What example are you setting?

Will you be able to say I stood firm for the Lord—in the end I gave no ground to the enemy?

Will you be able to say “I lived a strategic life that mattered, that left a mark in this world that left others less fortunate better off because of the way I lived my life?”

Did I give myself wholeheartedly to a cause greater than myself in alignment with what my Creator prepared in advance for me to do as the Bible so clearly states? 

Did I rise to the challenges presented to me—did I embrace them as opportunities to live out the destiny God ordained before I ever came to be when He planned for my existence and oversaw my formation in my mother’s womb and set the days I would live on this earth?

Have I lived out God’s ordained purposes for my life? 

Have I lived a shotgun existence or a laser beamed life focused on what really matters informed by my Creator, secured by Christ at the cross, and empowered by the Holy Spirit?

Did I receive His gift of life through His Son Jesus or have I resisted His overtures of love and forgiveness offered so many times I’ve lost count? 

Have I received His gift of salvation but kept it wrapped up and never opened it to receive the abundant life He so gracefully and mercifully handed me?

Have I made up my mind to live my life in accordance with God’s design or the world’s? 

Have I chosen the narrow road that leads to life or the wide road that leads to certain destruction?  God has revealed His plan (Titus 2:11-14). 

“For the grace of God that brings salvation has appeared to all men. It teaches us to say "No" to ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright and godly lives in this present age, while we wait for the blessed hope — the glorious appearing of our great God and Savior, Jesus Christ, who gave himself for us to redeem us from all wickedness and to purify for himself a people that are his very own, eager to do what is good…which He has prepared in advance for us to do.”

December 10, 2008

Called to Integrity...

We are called to be authentic Christians, men of integrity. 

 

Psalm 15 describes what a man of integrity does...

 

Lord, who may dwell in your sanctuary?  Who may live on your holy hill?  He whose walk is blameless and who does what is righteous, who speaks the truth from his heart and has no slander on his tongue, who does his neighbor no wrong and casts no slur on his fellowman, who despises a vile man but honors those who fear the Lord, who keeps his oath even when it hurts, who lends his money without usury and does not accept a bribe against the innocent.  He who does these things will never be shaken.

 

One of the best definitions of integrity follows.

 

“Integrity binds our person together and fosters a spirit of contentment within us. It will not allow our lips to violate our hearts.  When integrity is the referee, we will be consistent; our beliefs will be mirrored by our conduct.  There will be no discrepancy between what we appear to be and what our family knows we are, whether in times of prosperity or adversity.  Integrity allows us to predetermine what we will be regardless of circumstances, persons involved, or the places of our testing.”  John Maxwell

 

Another great leader comments on the importance of a good character.

 

“Character is like a tree and reputation like its shadow. The shadow is what we think of it; the tree is the real thing.  I desire so to conduct the affairs of this administration that if at the end, when I come to lay down the reins of power, I have lost every other friend on earth, I shall at least have one friend left, and that friend shall be down inside me."  Abraham Lincoln

 

Sober thoughts to be sure.  Share with me your thoughts about integrity...

 

November 26, 2008

Reconnecting...

It has been a month since my last post.  I apologize to the faithful readers of this blog.  After coming back from my sabbatical I have had repeated opportunities to practice the lessons I learned over those 4 months.  As many of you know, Bethel University had undergone a leadership change at the top followed by a reorganization.  Until very recently I have been living in a state of ambiguity as to my future.  Remaining centered in Christ leaving the outcome(s) to Him has been a challenge.  Now, much of the ambiguity has been removed.  So, please forgive me for my absence.  I will do better in the future.

I am looking forward to the days and months ahead serving God at Bethel University.  One of the roles I have been given is to represent the president's office regarding online education across the institution.  This is a great opportunity to bring together various entities and expand our virtual footprint beyond our current geographical boundaries.  I believe in what Bethel stands for.  In this age of global change, economic struggle, and pervasive oppression the need for transformational leaders has never been greater.  Online education is a means to this end by offering access, flexibility, and convenience.  The development of Christ-centered transformational leaders aligns closely with my life purpose and committed passion...

Life Purpose

 

My life purpose is to influence leaders directly and indirectly to live 'all-out' for Christ, to facilitate a process to determine how God has 'wired' them, to help them align their lives according to God's predetermined plans, to encourage them to become pro-active partners in God's purposes and redemptive activity and to exhort them to live a legacy worth leaving in the lives of others. 

 

Committed Passion

 

My committed passion is to help men and women realize their God-given potential in Christ and to develop to the fullest their God-given gifts, abilities and capacities for godly leadership from the inside out and within legitimate limitations such as temperament, aptitude and maturity.

I am 60 years of age.  Like Paul the Apostle, I want to be a learner up to the last minute before I am called home.  In this last push I want to live a legacy worth leaving in the lives of others, I want to make a difference with regard to God's redemptive purposes.  I want to leave my sphere of influence in a better place.  I want my life to bring honor to my Lord.

How about you?

 

October 23, 2008

Updates

Thank you to the faithful readers of my blog. I would enjoy hearing from you. Please make comments to my posts. It seems that my travel schedule has expanded dramatically--Charlotte, NC in October, Geneva Switzerland in November, London England in December, Oxford England (the Kilns - C.S. Lewis' home) in September.

My speaking engagements include Rush City Baptist Men's Breakfast in November, Christ the Rock Church in Menesha Wisconsin in January, possibly Brasilia Brazil in May or April, and Fagaras Romania in August--all related to Heart of a Warrior Ministries.

Please pray for our ministry.  If you feel led to give to the ministry please make a check payable to Heart of a Warrior Ministries and mail them to 391 harriet Circle, Shoreview, MN 55126.

We are beginning to dream about conducting another Heart of a Warrior Advance 2 years from now.

We are so blessed.   I am very grateful for the opportunities to invest in the lives of men because each man represents a family.  In these difficult days we need men who are willing to count the cost, serve the King, and lead our families.

Our ministry at Lino Lakes Prison continues to expand.  We have been asked to offer Phase I:  Heart of a Warrior to more men at the prison and start Phase II for men who have completed Phase I.  Please pray for our team.

My Speaking Schedule

  • CY 2009
  • Heart of a Warrior Advance (2)
  • August, 22-31, 2009
  • Fagaras, Romania

Roses for Jan

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    For our dear friend Jan in California. These pictures were taken in the a rose garden of the Madgelan College of Oxford. It was dedicated to the workers in the university who discovered the importance of penicillin.

Great Quotes

  • We cannot escape our destiny, nor should we try to do so. The leadership of the free world was thrust upon us two centuries ago in that little hall of Philadelphia. In the days following World War II, when the economic strength and power of America was all that stood between the world and the return to the dark ages, Pope Pius XII said, "The American people have a great genius for splendid and unselfish actions. Into the hands of America God has placed the destinies of an afflicted mankind." We are indeed, and we are today, the last best hope of man on earth. Conclusion from Ronald Reagan's 1974 CPAC Speech

    "The practice of morality being necessary for the well being of society, He [God] has taken care to impress its precepts so indelibly on our hearts that they shall not be effaced by the subtleties of our brain. We all agree in the obligation of the moral precepts of Jesus and nowhere will they be found delivered in greater purity than in his discourses."

    The Writings of Thomas Jefferson, Albert Ellery Bergh,editor (Washington, D.C.: The Thomas Jefferson Memorial Association, 1904), Vol. XII, p.315, to James Fishback, September 27, 1809.

    Tolerance is putting up with behavior one finds objectionable. Society defines tolerance as acceptance and affirmation. Dan Taylor, 1999.

    Given that everyone agrees that some things should not be tolerated, the real issue should not be whether one is tollerant or intolerant, but what's oncluded on one's list...One is not tolernat of something unless one objects to it...A challenge for those who prize tolerance as one of the highest public goods is to distinguish between healthy tolerance and a diseased moral passivity or indifference...Tooo much of what passes as tolerance in America is not the result of principled judgment but is simple moral indifference. Dan Taylor, CT 1999

    He who gives thanks for little will always find he has enough.

    Perform one act per day that defies “success” as you once defined it. Choose not to impress someone; refuse to invest in an image; compliment someone you once judged. By all means, let your heart be at peace. Chris Tiegreen - The One Year Walk with God

    The Enemy can't steal your salvation but he can steal all its pleasure--your joy and your peace. Chris Tiegreen - The One Year Walk with God

    We have seen a concerted effort in recent years to change the meaning of tolerance from "putting up with the objectionable" to "affirming the diverse." Dan Taylor

    He who provides for this life, but takes no care for eternity, is wise for a moment, but a fool forever. John Tillotson

    The road to moral impurity and spiritual corruption is the result of incremental compromise through a slow erosion of standards, a growing carelessness about details, a gradual blurring of distinctives, and poor moral discipline. Isa 1:22; Eph 4:17-24 Greg Bourgond

    You don't feel your way into good behavior, you behave your way into good feelings. Neil T. Anderson

    Courage is not the absence of fear, it is the absence of self. Erwin McManus

    We need a firm grip on God's Word before we will experience much success at practical Christianity. We need to understand who we are as a result of who God is and what He has done. A productive Christian behavior system is the byproduct of a solid Christian belief system, not the other way around. Neil Anderson

    Spiritual formation for the Christian basically refers to the Spirit-driven process of forming the inner world of the human self in such a way that it becomes like the inner being of Christ Himself ... Christian formation is focused entirely on Jesus. Its goal is an obedience or conformity to Christ that arises out of an inner transformation accomplished through puposive interaction with the grace of God in Christ. Galatians 4:19 Dallas Willard - Renovation of the Heart

    Gen. Omar Bradley, a hero of World War II, delivered a speech in Boston in 1948 that is remarkably appropriate for the violent and chaotic world of today. "The world has acheived brillance without wisdom, power without conscience. Ours is a world of nuclear giants and ethical midgets. We know more about war than we know of peace, more about killing than we know about living." Bob Herbert, Star Tribune, Feb. 4, 2003.

    We need a firm grip on God's Word before we will experience much success at practical Christianity. We need to understand who we are as a result of who God is and what He has done. A productive Christian behavior system is the byproduct of a solid Christian belief system, not the other way around. Neil Anderson April 30, 2006

    See the What's New page of the Heart of a Warrior for previous quotes appearing on this blog.

Reading & Watching

  • Timothy Keller: The Reason for God: Belief in an Age of Skepticism

    Timothy Keller: The Reason for God: Belief in an Age of Skepticism
    A great apologetic for atheistic and secular claims disputing the existence of God. Publisher's Weekly made the following comments. "In this apologia for Christian faith, Keller mines material from literary classics, philosophy, anthropology and a multitude of other disciplines to make an intellectually compelling case for God. Written for skeptics and the believers who love them, the book draws on the author's encounters as founding pastor of New York's booming Redeemer Presbyterian Church. One of Keller's most provocative arguments is that all doubts, however skeptical and cynical they may seem, are really a set of alternate beliefs. Drawing on sources as diverse as 19th-century author Robert Louis Stevenson and contemporary New Testament theologian N.T. Wright, Keller attempts to deconstruct everyone he finds in his way, from the evolutionary psychologist Richard Dawkins to popular author Dan Brown. The first, shorter part of the book looks at popular arguments against God's existence, while the second builds on general arguments for God to culminate in a sharp focus on the redemptive work of God in Christ. Keller's condensed summaries of arguments for and against theism make the scope of the book overwhelming at times. Nonetheless, it should serve both as testimony to the author's encyclopedic learning and as a compelling overview of the current debate on faith for those who doubt and for those who want to re-evaluate what they believe, and why."

  • Charles Colson: The Faith: What Christians Believe, Why They Believe It, and Why It Matters

    Charles Colson: The Faith: What Christians Believe, Why They Believe It, and Why It Matters
    This is a must read mean. Not only is it an accurate picture of our relativistic culture today it also clearly sets forth the basic beliefs of Christians. It answers the question what Christians believe, why they believe it, and why it matters. This is a book you will want to read word for word.

  • Rob Bell: Rythm
    One of Rob Bell's latest Noomas is tiltled Rythm. I would recommend this for anyone. "Is how we live connected to something that has been in place since the beginning of time? Maybe Jesus didn't come to start a new religion, but to show us how to live in tune with the life God has always planned for us." Number 11 in a series of 18 talks about God's melody that has been playing for centuries. The melofy speaks of His character. Bell asks the question, "Are you in tune with God's melody?" The instrumental accompanying the comments is worth the price alone.
  • Alister E. McGrath: Understanding Doctrine

    Alister E. McGrath: Understanding Doctrine
    I recommend this book to every man. In a day when doctrine is disparaged McGrath powerfully argues for its importance. He says, "In order for anyone - Christian, atheist, Marxist or Moslem - to make informed moral decisions, it is necessary to have a set of values concerning human life. Those values are determined by beliefs, and thos beliefs are stated as doctrines. Christian doctrine thus provides a fundamental framework for Christian living." 12/23/06

  • Harry R.Jr. Jackson: The Warriors Heart: Rules of Engagement for the Spiritual War Zone

    Harry R.Jr. Jackson: The Warriors Heart: Rules of Engagement for the Spiritual War Zone
    Reminds us of the spiritual warfare around us that affects every aspect of our lives. Eph 6:12 "For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms." This book is a good reminder of the battle before us. 12/23/06

  • Alasdair C. MacIntyre: After Virtue: A Study in Moral Theory

    Alasdair C. MacIntyre: After Virtue: A Study in Moral Theory
    For those of you wanting to delve into moral philosophy MacIntyre offers an interesting journey. The author suggests that "our moral language assumes a universality we do not believe." He traces the breakdown of moralistic thining and deciding. He coined the phrase that we are living in a "new dark age." This book is for serious students of morality.

  • David Martyn Lloyd-Jones: The Christian Soldier: An Exposition of Ephesians 6:1020

    David Martyn Lloyd-Jones: The Christian Soldier: An Exposition of Ephesians 6:1020
    The author examines the whole armor of God as it relates to the spiritual warfare we all face as believers and followers of Christ. He describes, in vivid detail, the picture of a Christian as a soldier so powerfully depicted in the writings of the Apostle Paul. The battle is real as is the armor God gives us to fight the battle.

  • Gary Smalley and John Trent: The Blessing

    Gary Smalley and John Trent: The Blessing
    Many men have never received a blessing from the father. All men long for a blessing. This book helps you understand the importance of blessing your children whether they are still children or they are now adults. I encourage every man to read this book and apply its principles. April 24, 2006

  • George Barna: Transforming Children into Spiritual Champions

    George Barna: Transforming Children into Spiritual Champions
    The online instroduction to this book frames its importance. "No one can deny that our culture is opposed to Christian values, and the influences bombarding our children's moral development can be deadly. But few parents and church leaders realize how critical it is to start developing a child's biblical worldview from the very earliest years of life. The problem is complex: parents who themselves did not receive early spiritual training leave their children's training to the church. Yet the church often focuses on older children-not realizing that a child's moral development is set by the age of nine." This book is exceedingy helpful to all parents desiring to raise up children who can live godly lives in the midst of darkness, who can navigate their way in unfamiliar territory, and who can make decisions that bring glory and honor to God. April 15, 2006

  • Neil T. Anderson: Daily in Christ: A Devotional

    Neil T. Anderson: Daily in Christ: A Devotional
    This is a "must have" book. Anderson deals with our identity in Christ. The nature of the influence of the Enemy on the lives of believers is clearly described. Used as a daily devotional you will be systematically informed, encouraged, and enlightened. Any man seeking to live victoriously will find this devotional indespensible. 4/1/06

  • Robert Lewis: Raising a Modern Day Knight

    Robert Lewis: Raising a Modern Day Knight
    How does a boy become a man? What can we do to help them on the journey? An editorial commentator explains the book. "How does a father instill these qualities in his son? By Raising a Modern-Day Knight. Beginning with a biblical perspective of manhood, author-pastor Robert Lewis shares a unique approach to shaping a boy into a man by equipping him with three essential elements: a vision, a code of conduct, and a cause (Christianity) in which to invest his life. Complete with ceremony ideas to celebrate accomplishments and ingrain them in his mind, this softcover is as insightful as it is practical in raising a boy to be a chivalrous, godly man." Strategic fatherhood demands we give our sons such guidance. 3/31/06

  • Robert J. Sternberg: Why Smart People Can Be So Stupid

    Robert J. Sternberg: Why Smart People Can Be So Stupid
    Amazon describes this great read as follows - "Why do intelligent people sometimes behave in ways so stupid that they destroy their livelihoods or even their lives? This book is the first to investigate the psychological basis for stupidity in everyday life. Experts shed light on the nature and theory of stupidity, whether stupidity is measurable, how people can avoid stupidity and its devastating consequences, and much more." This is a secular book that provides interesting insight into why people do stupid things--people who should know better. There are lessons to be learned from this book. I recommend it. 3/24/06

  • James C. Dobson: Bringing Up Boys

    James C. Dobson: Bringing Up Boys
    This is an excellent resource for fathers who desire to help their boys become men. This book delves into research that supports the uniqueness of boys and what makes them tick. Many helpful suggestions are offered as well as cautions. This is a must read especially for fathers of young boys. 3/16/06

  • C. S. Lewis: Mere Christianity

    C. S. Lewis: Mere Christianity
    This book is a classic and should be 'must' reading for any person desiring a concrete argument for Christianity. Sound reasoning, clear examples, and strong support for the faith is presented. In an age where more and more Christians are ignorant of the foundations of their beliefs this book offers a rational basis for the essentials of orthodox Christianity. You will want to read this book frequently.

  • : King Arthur - 2004

    King Arthur - 2004
    This movie is loosely based on recent archeological findings that suggests King Authur lived as a Roman commander in England. It avoids the mystical elements of previous films. King Authur stands for courgae, honor, and duty. His commitment to his men and willingness to live and die for his convictions is refreshing in an our age of political correctness. What is the hill you are prepared to die on? What cause are you willing to give your life to?

  • : The Last Samurai (Widescreen Edition)

    The Last Samurai (Widescreen Edition)
    This movie is loosely based on actual historic events when Japan struggled to transition from a Samurai protectorate to a modern army. This movie is all about courage and valor. Pay close attention to the Samurai warlord. He epitomizes these qualities. Courage is simply leaning into your fear. Valor is never turning your back no matter the odds. An added bonus is the haunting music score.

  • Rob Bell: Lump

    Rob Bell: Lump
    The Nooma series of short videos are short videos that give great video presentations of scriptural truths. Each video in the series comes with a little study guide of compelling questions designed to help us process our journey. In this video, Rob Bell, lead pastor of Mars Hill Baptist Church in Grand Rapids Michigan, focuses on the issue of shame. God knows everything we have done. He wants to help us make things right. By doing so He will help us move to a brighter future.

  • : Gladiator (Extended Edition)

    Gladiator (Extended Edition)
    Gladiator is a compelling story of an amazing leader and general who became a slave, a gladiator, and hero. Under debiliating circumstances he maintained his integrity. He valued Rome, family, strength and honor. If we were as consistant as this pagan but for the cause of Christ what could we accomplish for the Kingdom?

  • : Antwone Fisher (Widescreen Edition)

    Antwone Fisher (Widescreen Edition)
    Great movie about rising above very difficult circumstances. Based on a true story this young man comes to terms with his past and the loss of a father just before his birth. Through the steady hand of a mentor he found his identity. This movie will lift your soul.

  • Paul D. Stanley & J. Robert Clinton: Connecting: The Mentoring Relationships You Need To Succeed In Life

    Paul D. Stanley & J. Robert Clinton: Connecting: The Mentoring Relationships You Need To Succeed In Life
    After analyzing over 2000 case studies of Christian leaders Clinton and his team found that leaders who finish well have had anywhere from 10 to 15 significant mentors in their life. This book describes 9 different types of mentors in 3 broad categories: intentional, occasional, and passive. It will help you decide what type of mentor you need, how to approach a mentor, and how to develop a mentoring plan. We need each other men. Find a mentor, be a mentor.

  • J. Robert Clinton: The Making of a Leader

    J. Robert Clinton: The Making of a Leader
    This book outlines how God develops leaders. It identiifies six stages of development. This well researched resource provides valuable insights. To date Clinton and his team have studied the lives of 2000 Christian leaders (biblical, historical, and contemporary). Leadership development is a function of perspective, processing, and the leaders response to God's processing. It may be a little hard to read but it is worth the effort. You will find many transferable concepts for training leaders.

  • Dallas Willard: Renovation of the Heart: Putting on the Character of Christ

    Dallas Willard: Renovation of the Heart: Putting on the Character of Christ
    This book is a compliment to Victory of Darkness. Willard understands spiritual formation from the inside out. He explains how the heart is corrupted and renewed. I agree with the reviewer who said, "The way of change is through inner transformation and taking the small steps that lead one to it. Beginning with an introduction to spiritual formation, (the author) then outlines the avenues through which transformation takes place, including thoughts, feelings, choices, social context, the body, and the soul."

    I believe one of the reasons why we are often 'clueless' about the sources of our abhorent behavior is that we are looking for quick and easy routes to wholeness. This book will help you understand the sources of our behavior and how to make transformational change through the empowerment of the Holy Spirit.

  • Neil T. Anderson: Victory over the Darkness

    Neil T. Anderson: Victory over the Darkness
    This book was instrumental in facilitating an inside-out transformation of my life. While on active duty many years ago I read the book when I wasn't on duty. It helped me to understand the source of my corruption that resulted in repeated sinful behavior. It also showed me how to remove strongholds in my life that kept me from being all God intended me to be. It helped me connect the dots. The book firmly establishes our identity in Christ. It's not what we do that determines who we are; it's who we are in Christ that determines what we do. Dr. Anderson and his book provided the seed for Heart of a Warrior Ministries. I strongly urge that every man who struggles with dishonorable behavior read this book. We have made it a requirement for the first phase of Heart of a Warrior.

  • Ted Cooper: The Bible in 90 Days

    Ted Cooper: The Bible in 90 Days
    As Christ-followers we should have a comprehesive view of the Bible--the tool God uses to shape us into the image of his Son. Cooper's plan calls for reading 12 pages a day for 90 days. The journey can be augmented by accompanying DVDs, participant's guide, and other materials if you choose to take the trip with a group. I'm doing it solo using the specially prepared Bible in 90 Days NIV Thinline LP Bible. Not only does it give you a 'helicopter' view but it helps you connect with God's redemptive purposes for humanity over time.

  • Erwin Raphael McManus: The Barbarian Way : Unleash the Untamed Faith Within

    Erwin Raphael McManus: The Barbarian Way : Unleash the Untamed Faith Within
    Erwin calls the church to radical Christianity. It's all about 'bold relief' living, faith in action, congruence between belief and behavior, proactive engagement, and stand up and be counted profession. One reviewer put it this way,"Barbaric Christians see Jesus differently than civilized Christians. They see disciples differently, and they see Christ's mission differently. The Barbarian Way is a call to escape "civilized" Christianity and become original, powerful, untamed Christians-just as Christ intended." This book is a must read for all Christians who are tired of mediocrity.

  • George Barna: Revolution

    George Barna: Revolution
    Barna's latest book is his best in my estimation. I'm absolutely positive he will be either admired or loathed. This book shares some startling evidence that suggests people are opting for a no-holds-barred approach to living thier faith in bold relief--they are no longer satisfied with status quo and are choosing alternative approaches to being what God intended His church to be. This book will either shake you up, make you angry, or reassure you. This is certainly a wakeup call for the institutional church. Read it and determine if you are a "revolutionary" Christian.

  • Randy C. Alcorn: Heaven

    Randy C. Alcorn: Heaven
    Want to know what it's really going to be like in heaven? Randy has done a very thorough job investigating the Scriptures and leading experts to compile an amazing picture of what we can expect when God calls us home. He clears up many mysteries for us. If you want to be encouraged and uplifted read this book. It'll give you a whole new perspective on heaven and God's future plans for us.

  • David Murrow: Why Men Hate Going to Church

    David Murrow: Why Men Hate Going to Church
    Wake up call for churches - finally a book that gets it regarding ministry to men. The author suggests that men haven't left the church, the church has left men. Murrow gives some excellent suggestions for churches (and ministry organizations) if they want to attract and engage men. Many of his contentions are backed by solid research findings. A must read for those interested in establishing men's ministries or reaching men for the kingdom.

Books for Men

  • Resources for Men
    This bibliography contains recommended books on subjects of interest to men. It will be updated frequently.